Yan yung linyang lalabas
the moment na tumanggi ka
magpa-abuso.
“Hindi ka naman ganyan dati.”
“Binago ka na ng pera.”
“Umakyat na sa ulo mo ang pera.”
And that’s the part na masakit.
Hindi dahil totoo sila.
Kundi dahil alam mong hindi yan fair.
They didn’t see the nights
na pinagkakasya mo yung pera mo.
They didn’t feel the pressure
na ikaw lang ang sumasalo.
They didn’t carry the fear
na isang emergency lang,
ubos lahat ng pinaghirapan mo.
But now that you’re okay,
biglang may say na sila.
Here’s what they don’t understand.
Saying no doesn’t mean madamot ka.
It means may boundaries ka.
It means you’re protecting
the stability you worked hard to build.
It means you finally learned
na hindi lahat pwedeng saluhin.
Because if you say yes to everyone,
ikaw ang mauubos.
And let’s be honest…
Kapag nagalit sila dahil tumanggi ka,
it says more about them than it does about you.
People who really love you
will respect your decision.
People who's only there to use you
will attack your character.
Hindi dahil mali ka…
kundi dahil nasira yung expectaion nila sa'yo.
So the next time may magsabi sayo na,
“Ang yabang mo na” kasi tumanggi ka magpautang...
Pause.
And remember this.
Boundaries don’t make you arrogant.
They make you responsible.
You’re not changing for the worse.
You’re changing for the future
you’re trying to protect.
And if losing their approval
is the price of protecting your peace and family…
That’s a price worth paying.
#bosskfr #kfr
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