Lessons

 BREAKUP LESSONS WE CAN LEARN FROM KATHNIEL

By Carl Dave Black Ang

1. Sadly, LOVE ISN’T ENOUGH TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP LAST OR TO MAKE A PERSON STAY. As we grow, our choices change.

2. YOU CAN’T CHANGE SOMEONE. No matter how much you try to change for someone, and no matter how much you try to change that someone, it will never be enough. 

2. SOME THINGS CAN’ T BE FIXED. Appliances can be fixed. But most of the time, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. If something doesn’t work between two people, it gets worse if you force it.

3. DO WHAT’S BEST FOR YOURSELF. Forcing whats not meant to be will only cause more mental trauma and suffering. People might be happy seeing you together as a couple but remember, it’s not about their happiness, it’s about YOURS. 

4. YOU WILL HURT, BUT YOU WILL HEAL.  

5. PAY ATTENTION TO RED FLAGS. The red flags that you ignore and tolerate from the start of the relationship would be the same red flags that will end the relationship.

6. THERE’S LIFE AFTER A BREAKUP. When you’ve been in a relationship for so long, you might find it hard to start again alone. But eventually, you will once again learn to smile, socialize, and meet new people. Take your time to heal.  

7. Possibly the hardest part; if things don’t work, know when to say no and say it’s enough. Dili sa tanang panahon applicable ang "pahulay sa", then "laban napod". Mao bitaw usahay masakitan ta kay ato paman gyud pugson ang mga butang nga dili na unta dapat ipadayon. 😏 

Our #kathniel heart. 💔😢 Wa gyud diay forever.

From their last series 2Good2bTrue to 2Sad2bTrue breakup